A thought with bit sense!

Yesterday, I switched on my TV (being bored as usual ;-)) and I came across an interesting program...You are eager to know, which program is that, right...

It was a court hearing by Judge Judy....Argument was between a Mom and Son for the loan of 2000$ advanced by him to his own mother...Mom states that she is having cancer and she is in short of money due to treatment and promises to return money soon. She says “I have raised an "Ungrateful Child"...Son says that he has taken loan from his college and so he need it back...Judgment was said in favour of twenty one year old kid..

He forgot the love and care his mom gave him till this age for a sum of $2000...Can he ever compare with what she has given him till now for just a sum of $2000? He forgot his mom is sick and near to death for $2000..Sadly,everything in life now is weighed against money.

Beware: Document all aspects of lending and paying back even if it is with your own kid, parents, relatives, friends and all...No one knows what may happen tomorrow...Personally I scare about my kids doing the same to me. ;-) ...

Only one single word came to my mind...Wondering what it is? I’ll tell you...It’s "Money"...That can turn world upside down...I see ex-boyfriend suing his girlfriend and vice versa...All for money! I guess the person who has found such an instrument "Money" never thought what may follow it...I have learned in my school days that man initially were nomads, and then they started settling in one place doing agriculture. Barter System evolved eventually so that they could share what they produce hence fulfilling all basic needs of all. And Then was the birth of "Money" that took place for convenience in trading.

However, Money has turned to be a weapon that helps making relations and breaking them too..Now, let’s imagine giving someone money they asked for...I am sure all of us does have experience in lending...And after promised time you are calling them for return and amazingly your friend may not answer or all of a sudden he is out of station...When he took that money from you he had a broad smile of friendship making bonds stronger and when you call him back for return ,grin disappears ...And your call is left unanswered making the bonds more weaker...Not all does the same way! But once such an incident strike someone ,he fear lending money at all...

In office importance of money is no different...If boss did not give appraisal to employee’s expectation...Then he set a limit in work thinking I ll work for the pay I receive and not more. But if he is given a chance to talk about work ethics ,he speaks about dedication to the company and all..But where is the sincere dedication? I am not going to write more ,on contribution of money towards all aspects in life like family, crimes,etc...I want to just point out Money has become "All" for all..I agree we need money to live...Yes we do need some money as savings for our future ,safety,towards risks,etc...But more than savings, for what? We are not going to take it with us, after death. You may ask you need to leave some money for kids...Yes,we need to...But not more than what they need...I don't think so..Enrich our children with culture and love..So that they work hard and rise high in career as their parents did...As a parent all think that I have struggled in my life so I ll not let my child struggle nor punish them when wrong..Hence he is raised in all comfort, not having idea about family, relations and moral values...When more money and freedom is given, more chance that child is lost...

All I have to say ,"If money is given less importance and utilised in an appropriate way, then no mother has to weep about an ungrateful child nor kid has to sue his own mother for money.."

Blossoming Garden

A budding rose in the garden of life

Born to bring new color

Dazzling in the gentle breeze

Sprinkling smile of beauty and love

Thorns set as barriers in its way

Yet, there were soothing comforts

Caring touch lifted in kind

From dangers passed by

No more a child again

Blossoming in its youth

Glory of beauty crowned

Lasted not for long

Pricking thorns hurt more

Time passes leaving weariness

Enchanted beauty vanished

With shedding petals...

Looked for hands of care

Loosing youth is teary

Seems to be reckless adventure

Turn into dark phase of life

Slow process makes it tiresome

Waiting for the very end

No more a shining Star

No more crowns of beauty

Paving way for young ones

Cycle of process never ends

Heading towards ultimate end

Till the Garden of Life exists...

Nothing Stays Forever!!

A dew of happiness , Momentary
Cherish it , before it drops down !

Feel the pain in tears ,Momentary
Dry it , before it wets you!

Love is time to fly ,Momentary
Fly high, before wings are Gone!

Expectations gives hope, Momentary
Helps moving on ,before time on earth falls!

Time on earth to live, Momentary
Enjoy each moment, before it lapses!

Smile have no cost, Momentary
Gives more life , forgetting tears!

Mountain of challenge, Momentary
Face courageously, before it turns you down!

Threaten of failures, Momentary
Fight for success, before it shatters you!

All colour's in life, Momentary
Enjoy like rainbow,before it fades away!

A Travel through my life ....

I am here to share some of my written stuffs with my view of life in it ..I am not a professional writer or a poet. .So here is excuse in advance for any mistakes..And I don’t claim whatever I write is correct..It is just imperfect as I am..So you have got all right to express your comments..May be I can do better next time with your sincere comments..

Most of the written stuffs are in poem format , but not with all qualities of a poem.. I mean there is no usage rhyming, metaphor etc...So I don't know what to name it..

All my writing is based on my understanding of life expressing all emotions in life may that be love (emotion that cannot be ignored, and one who claims not having it ,I doubt whether he/she is human at all),anger, friendship, joy, sadness,.... It’s something I learned from the journey of ups and downs in my life. All are in the journey towards perfection..And all the happenings in each one’s life ,may that be happy/sadness serves for the same purpose i.e., Attaining perfection..

hope you ll enjoy reading them....